so long has passed, so much to tell.

Okay so I guess I should start with saying that I received a message from someone that I did not know. He said he didn't think my kids should be around drug users did I? I got the message and had no clue what it was about but of course things started going through my head. I was not at the computer when he sent it. When I got back he was logged out so I had to wait a whole day before getting an email from him. I will paste it here of course names changed as always---

Subj:

(no subject)
Date:

8/27/2004 2:46:38 PM Eastern Daylight Time
From:some stranger
To: woman scorned

Since I've known "the whore" she's had a pretty heavy drug problem. I know she does heroin on a regular basis because she's told me and I've seen evidence myself when we were dating. She's asked me to take her to get drugs which I've refused to do on numerous occasions. I've spoken to people who have taken her to get drugs though. She also told me that "Jackass" has started snorting heroin. I don't know if you want your children exposed to that kind of situation or not, but I thought you'd like to know. My best advice to you would be to show up one night unnounced and see if they're high. Also - do you know "Jackass's" mail because there are some things I'd like to talk to him about regarding her behavior since they've been engaged.

p.s. "The Whore" has told me on numerous occasions how much she hates your kids. She calls them "monsters."

Of course this freaked me out, when I talked to him he told me other details about our family that he would only know if the whore had told him. I contacted my attorney who basically said that the divorce was already settled and that I should be happy I came out so well and just let it go. I told her the money wasn't worth a crap to me if my kids might be in danger and I wanted to find out for sure. She said she has already done her job and that was that. I also called DFCS, I gave them no names at all, just told them the situation and also that I had no first hand knowledge of their drug use and wanted to know if they could make any recommendations. They told me it is out of your system in 12 hours. Honestly even if they are doing it there is still a good chance that they wouldn't get detected then I would be causing more problems for nothing. I did speak with the ex about it and was told that the guy informing me of this stuff was just trying to get her back for starting problems with his now ex girlfriend. When I again spoke to the guy, he admitted he was only telling me because she told a bunch of crap to his ex but that it was all true. It very well may be true but without any first hand knowledge there isn't anything I can do. He wanted me to report it to DFCS. I told him I couldn't. I also told him if he felt so strongly about it nobody was stopping him from doing it. He said he might. I hope if he does that they don't find anything. I hope nothing more than to find out that this isn't true. I'm very scared that it might be. The other thing that worries me is also during our conversation in instant message he told me that she has said she would beat my children but fears being arrested. She better know she will be arrested :P Anyway there is more but I have to go cook dinner. I will say more later.