Ivy's Space

A journal of the life of a failed marriage and the after affects on the wife and children, told from the wife's perspective.

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Location: Georgia, United States

If you want to know about me, read my blog. There is far too much going on in my head for this little box.

Saturday, August 07, 2004

I will NOT let them ruin my weekend.

Okay so I was doing a little better last night, I spent the evening with my kids and mother. After a while mom and I watched a movie. We watched The Butterfly Effect. It was actually a pretty good movie. Something different anyway. I log on today and find that the jackass has changed his profile and pictures. Mostly identical to the whores but with a few special things to rub it all in my face. If you are truly happy with someone why the need to rub it in someone else's face? Why the need to make someone miserable with it? So I handled it. I deleted both of his screen names. Considering it IS my account and always was, even before him, I have every right. I also changed all my passwords and my secret question, not to mention my billing info, all to stuff that he wouldn't know. Hope he had all his buddy lists backed up. Actually, that isn't true, I hope he DIDN'T. I'm really not sure what some of his stuff on his profile meant. It referenced making fun of people that can't spell tongue, but since I can spell it, it must have been to someone else on that. I could make fun of his whore spelling ecstatically incorrectly, she has estatically or something like that, but there are too many other things I could say about her. Anyway it bugged me, because until this point I never realized what a piece of trash I had been married to, and now I'm even more sure that he is on something...I am going to post the picture of his profile here I covered the identifying information, just so you can see what it was, also keep in mind that in addition to this were pictures of them in various stages of making out, talking about do they ever come up for air and such. I just think that if you are truly happy you wouldn't need to cause someone else pain in order to enjoy yourself. My son said the other day to me that he hoped that daddy would get rid of her before they get married, I smirked but said that wasn't nice... he said yeah daddy told me I hurt her feelings when I said it. So classic, my son to tell it like he sees it, no matter who is presently listening. Too funny! They think that I have shaped his mind to what he thinks but if my soon to be ex knew his son at all he would know that nobody tells him what to think. He is a free thinker and very smart. He is also a mommy's boy. It is possible that he sees the hurt in me and therefore doesn't like their relationship but it isn't because I've told him not to like her. Anyway today is kind of a low day although it did feel good to erase his names. The email I sent to him said this... The subject line was "You are" and the body of the email said " just as fuckin trashy as she is for posting that shit trying to rub your relationship in my face, I hope you both have a miserable life together and you can create a name on her account because you are NOT using my AOL account to hurt me, you disgust me." This is all I have for now, I've got plans with the kids today so I am going to go, hopefully the screen shot will post. If not I'll work on it later. Just so you know, the more I read his profile, the more I am embarassed to admit that I was actually married to him, please note that he was NOT the same person when we were together.

2 Comments:

Blogger Ivy said...

awww hang in there sweetie, I hope things get better and thanks for posting, it's okay to rant here, I say get it all out whenever you can. My heart really goes out to you, because I know exactly how you feel.

9:09 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Ivy,

I know I've mentioned it before, so punch me for being an arse I guess... but based on all that you say about this guy, I would strongly suggest doing all you can to get him out of their life. Those pictures and the changes he made to the profile are just more firepower in a court of law to prove your case. He seems very unstable, and he's probably a danger to your children. Document everything you can to prove your case if it comes to it. If he is doing drugs, that alone should be enough to remove his visitation rights. Maybe hire a PI to get some proof. I hope the best for you and your children! Stay safe.

8-(

11:56 AM  

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