Update time
Okay so I haven't posted in a long time and last time I left it very up in the air. The good news was that I didn't have anything at all to be worried about. Mon amour came to see me and well it was about as fantastic as it could be. The hard part was saying goodbye at the end of his trip. The good news? I am going there in September! We are taking things slowly but everyday with him is more beautiful. We decided after his trip that it would be easier on us if we made an agreement to see other people but... well... we found that was not easier at all. In fact it made us completely miserable because we just didn't feel like a team anymore. It felt awkward and well even though it defies all that is logical, we are now exclusive again. If we lived by logic we wouldn't be together in the first place.
I stopped blogging for so long because I have been busy with school. I am enjoying it but it kept me very busy between that and my children. It paid off though because in the end I got two B's and an A! '''yay for friends helping me with my homework and to mon amour for helping me understand the math that I found so complex. He's such a freakin genius.
Now about my kids, they are learning to ride their bikes. They've had a few spills but are doing really well! I'm so extremely proud. Also they are doing well in school. My daughter has been doing a lot better since they put her in special help classes. She isn't dumb but she does struggle to keep her focus. I'm just really happy that she isn't being held back this year.
Some recent issues that are bugging me... My ex hasn't been paying his credit card. My name is still on this card even though he is supposed to remove my name. It is so far behind that they took the payment out of my bank account. The card and my account are with the same credit union so technically yes they can do this. My only recourse would be to sue my ex. I asked him for the money but he says he doesn't have it. He got paid today so I know he does but he's apparently behind on bills and trying to catch them up. I am fairly certain he is back on drugs. He has less bills than I do and gets more money yet can't keep his bills paid. He just got a nice big bonus recently but it's apparently gone too. I know about the bonus because they deposited a large amount of it in my account. Like a dummy I actually wrote him a check for it. If I had known that his credit card was behind at that point I would have used it to pay for that. Next time he can be sure that it will go to do exactly that. I am so sick of people being so worthless that they will not pay their bills. His whore can definitely get a job if she would stay off drugs long enough to.
My kids always talk about how mean she is and that she says cruel things to them about their weight. My kids have some excess weight but they are NOT fat. This girl is about 100 lbs and looks sickly. Most people that have seen her picture can tell immediately that she is a heroin junkie. A few even thought she was a guy because her facial features are all sunken in. I tell them nah, she's just an ugly girl with serious issues. My kids also tell me she is very selfish. I've asked them not to discuss her with me unless she does something to hurt them. It really is something they need to talk to their father about but they say he gets very angry if they say anything bad about her so they try to avoid that. They know that they can talk to me if they don't like someone I am with. I believe in their right to express their opinion.
I have avoided telling them about this money situation with their father but last night I called him when he was bringing them home. He had told me he would be bringing me a check but when he was on his way said he forgot it. I stressed to him that I need that money because I have checks written against it. I had no idea they would be taking that money or that it was still past due. He told me he was at the gas station so I told him he needed to run home and get the money. He continued talking about it to me and in front of the kids so they knew what was going on. He then proceeded to call his whore and tell her all about it in front of them. Now they are all worried about this money and are very upset with him. I have tried telling them adults make mistakes but they are really stressed now. Way to go, asshole. They said he lied to his whore, too, telling her that I said he couldn't have the kids if he didn't give me the money. What I said was when you come tomorrow you need to bring the whole amount. This is true. It isn't my fault that he can't pay his bills. The kids apparently heard the whole conversation so they know I didn't say that. Also when he got here i stood between him and his car because he refused to tell me when he was bringing the check. There is no reason for him to be such an ass. Let's see, you spend your money on other things instead of paying your bills. I pay my bills on time. Which is more fair that me and your kids go without things because you didn't pay your bill or that you go without? No brainer, oh wait I forgot, he lacks the intelligence to think logically these days. Drugs will do that to you I suppose.
Anyway I just needed to vent a bit. I have housework to do and will be heading off now to do that. I'll try to post more, really. You think I'm lying don't you? I wouldn't call it a lie, just an unkept commitment, we'll say I learned that from my ex :P
I stopped blogging for so long because I have been busy with school. I am enjoying it but it kept me very busy between that and my children. It paid off though because in the end I got two B's and an A! '''yay for friends helping me with my homework and to mon amour for helping me understand the math that I found so complex. He's such a freakin genius.
Now about my kids, they are learning to ride their bikes. They've had a few spills but are doing really well! I'm so extremely proud. Also they are doing well in school. My daughter has been doing a lot better since they put her in special help classes. She isn't dumb but she does struggle to keep her focus. I'm just really happy that she isn't being held back this year.
Some recent issues that are bugging me... My ex hasn't been paying his credit card. My name is still on this card even though he is supposed to remove my name. It is so far behind that they took the payment out of my bank account. The card and my account are with the same credit union so technically yes they can do this. My only recourse would be to sue my ex. I asked him for the money but he says he doesn't have it. He got paid today so I know he does but he's apparently behind on bills and trying to catch them up. I am fairly certain he is back on drugs. He has less bills than I do and gets more money yet can't keep his bills paid. He just got a nice big bonus recently but it's apparently gone too. I know about the bonus because they deposited a large amount of it in my account. Like a dummy I actually wrote him a check for it. If I had known that his credit card was behind at that point I would have used it to pay for that. Next time he can be sure that it will go to do exactly that. I am so sick of people being so worthless that they will not pay their bills. His whore can definitely get a job if she would stay off drugs long enough to.
My kids always talk about how mean she is and that she says cruel things to them about their weight. My kids have some excess weight but they are NOT fat. This girl is about 100 lbs and looks sickly. Most people that have seen her picture can tell immediately that she is a heroin junkie. A few even thought she was a guy because her facial features are all sunken in. I tell them nah, she's just an ugly girl with serious issues. My kids also tell me she is very selfish. I've asked them not to discuss her with me unless she does something to hurt them. It really is something they need to talk to their father about but they say he gets very angry if they say anything bad about her so they try to avoid that. They know that they can talk to me if they don't like someone I am with. I believe in their right to express their opinion.
I have avoided telling them about this money situation with their father but last night I called him when he was bringing them home. He had told me he would be bringing me a check but when he was on his way said he forgot it. I stressed to him that I need that money because I have checks written against it. I had no idea they would be taking that money or that it was still past due. He told me he was at the gas station so I told him he needed to run home and get the money. He continued talking about it to me and in front of the kids so they knew what was going on. He then proceeded to call his whore and tell her all about it in front of them. Now they are all worried about this money and are very upset with him. I have tried telling them adults make mistakes but they are really stressed now. Way to go, asshole. They said he lied to his whore, too, telling her that I said he couldn't have the kids if he didn't give me the money. What I said was when you come tomorrow you need to bring the whole amount. This is true. It isn't my fault that he can't pay his bills. The kids apparently heard the whole conversation so they know I didn't say that. Also when he got here i stood between him and his car because he refused to tell me when he was bringing the check. There is no reason for him to be such an ass. Let's see, you spend your money on other things instead of paying your bills. I pay my bills on time. Which is more fair that me and your kids go without things because you didn't pay your bill or that you go without? No brainer, oh wait I forgot, he lacks the intelligence to think logically these days. Drugs will do that to you I suppose.
Anyway I just needed to vent a bit. I have housework to do and will be heading off now to do that. I'll try to post more, really. You think I'm lying don't you? I wouldn't call it a lie, just an unkept commitment, we'll say I learned that from my ex :P
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